Pondering again

Read a quote that got me thinking:

"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~ Dr Seuss

2010 brought some trials, as I believe most years might.  Things such as an aging parent, family misunderstandings from unwarranted assumptions, apologies unacknowledged, and friends falling away.

Thankfully, 2011 already is offering an inkling of hope.  Reunited friendships and new adventures are presenting themselves for pursuit and growth.  

Truth for me is that I know when I am valued, wanted, and needed or when it's time to move on.   I am passionate about happiness and making sure everyone knows they are special.  If I don't agree with what you do,  I keep that to myself unless my opinion is asked for.  The "Don't Tell (or give unsolicited advice) Unless Asked" rule makes sense because I do not know what you are going through, what you have endured, or what your immediate future is.  I try very hard not to make assumptions cause the saying is, assume = make an ass out of U & and me.  I cannot waste my time living in a here and now that brings me down, that just will not do.  I will make changes if I need to as I thrive in change. So if I seem distracted or distant, call me back into the world.  I am a thinker but not closed minded and love interacting socially.  My happiness is really about being present in the moment and being there with others.  Isn't that what this adventure called life is all about? My heart is big and there's room for more!